Thursday, December 30, 2004

BETWEEN YOU AND ME

BETWEEN YOU AND ME

IN THE EARLY MORNING,
I'M WHISPERED AWAKE
BY THOUGHT OF YOU.
I'M AT WORK,
GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS OF THE DAY,
BUT MY HEAD IS FILLED WITH YOU.
I'M RUNNING ERRANDS,
DOING THE SHOULD AND HAVE -TO'S OF LIFE,
BUT MY STEP IS LIGHT
WITH LOVE FOR YOU.
I'M WITH FRIENDS,
TALKING AND LAUGHING,
KEEPING UP WITH THEIR LIVES,
BUT MY HEART
BEATS IN ANTICIPATION OF YOU.
I'M NEAR SLEEP,
MY BODY TIRED FROM THE DAY,
BUT MY MY MIND IS DANCING
WITH EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU,
AND I WONDWER...
WHATEVER DID I USED
TO THINK ABOUT
BEFORE I SPENT ALL MY TIME
THINKING ABOUT YOU?

RELATIONSHIP

* THE OTHER PERSON IS NOT YOU.
* IN RELATIONSHIP EACH OF US WANT TO BE LOVED.
* MOST REALTIONSHIOS FALL OVER FIGHT RESULT FOR IGNORANCE ABOUT TRUTH.
* YOUR PARTNER FEELINGS & BELIFES ARE IMPORATNT AS YOURS.
* WE COPY OUR PARNENTS.
* IT TAKES TO PEOPLE TO MAKE MARRIGE WORK OUT.
* IT TAKES BOTH TOK CHANGE & RE-CREAT IT, IF ONE OF YOUR WORNT YOU DON NOT REALLY
HAVE A RELATIONSHIP.
* REAL LOVE REGIUERS BOTH TO BE INVOLVED ,SPEAK UP,EXPRESS THEMSELVES.
*LATSTING LOVE IS A COMMITMENT THROUGH GOOD TIMES & BAD ,SICKNESS,HEALTH.
* CHECK IN WITH YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR BELOVED A LOVING FEELINGS , IF NOT IT MEANS YOU
LOST INTEREST.
* NO ONE CAN READ YOUR MIND.
* TWO SHELL BE AS ONE.
* EACH OF US HAS INTERESTS & BEHAVIORS THAT ARE NONNEGOTIABLE,
* FOUCS ON ACEPTANCE OF YOUR PARTNER WAY AS IMPORTANT.
* THE WAY YOUR ARE DIFFRENT CREATE THE EXCITMENT & CHALLELNGE.
* TO CREAT LASTING LOVE YOU HAVE TO SEE EACH OTHER FOR WHO YOU ARE.
* WITHOUT THE DIFFERENCES OU WOULD NEVER BE YOU & NEVER GET THE MAGIC OF BEING LOVED FOR
WHO YOU ARE TRUALY ARE -LOVE YOUR PARTNER THE SAME WAY.
* LOVE MATCH - IT'S FALSE - IT ONLY IN NOVELS.
* "MIGHT HAVE BEEN" & "SOULD HAVE" ARE ONLY ILLUSION.
* TOO OFTEN WE LOSE OURSELVES ,IGNORE OUR PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL ,SPIRTUAL NEEDS.
* LISTEN TO YOUR OWN INNER WISDOM JUST BE WITH YOURSELF ,PERSONAL CONNECTION WITH GOD &
UNIVERSE.
* ROMANCE CAN BE SEXY AS CANDLELIGHTS, MUSIC,ACTIVTIES,SHOPPING ,JUGGLING TRAVEL BAGS,
WALKING .......
* MOST OF US ENTER MARRIGE ON THE DEFENSIVE SIDE.
* BAD BEHAVIOR ITS SILLY = GIVE IT UP .
* IF IT TAKES EFFORT, IT CAN NOT BE LOVE.
* IF YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR LOVE , IT WILL RUIN IT,
* IF YOU HAVE TO WORK FOR LOVE , THAT IS THE OF YOUR ROMANCE.
* REAL LIFE REQUIRES ATTENTION TO ONE ANOTHER'S NEEDS.
* HOW SILLY TO WASTE OUR LIVES.
* WE THINK ABOUT MISTAKES IN PAST, EVENTS IN THE FUTURE, LOST OPPORTUNITIES.
* NOW IS YOUR LIFE & TO BE ALIVE ..WHAT DO REALLY WANT TO DO NOW ?
* A GIFT YOU CAN GIVE YOURSELF IS TO ADVANCE YOUR CAPACITY TO LOVE.
* CHANGING YOUR HEART CHANGES HOW YOU SEE LIFE.
* REMEMBER IF AT FIRST YOU DON'T SUCCEED TRY AGAIN.
* WHAT DO YOU WANT FORM YOUR MARRIAGE.
* IF YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO SOMETHING AND YOU KEEP WORKING YOUR DREAM DOES COME TURE.
* YOU CREATE YOUR OWN LIFE THAT IS TRUE.
* OPEN DOOR OF YOUR HEART TO LIFE & TAKE CHANCE PLAY AND WIN.
* OPEN YOUR AVAILABILITY & OPPORTUNITY TO BE VISITED BY LUCK .
* OPEN TO ONE ANOTHER & SHARING ,PHYSICAL HOLDING ,WORDS OF LOVE SUPPORT WILL BRING YOU
COMFORT.
* IF YOU ARE VALUED FOR WHO YOU KNOW YOURSELF TO BE AND NOR WHAT YOU DO JUST TO PLEASE
HIM ,THAT THE LOVE IS FOR YOU.
* IT'S THE DISCOVER & ENJOY THE DIFFERENCES THAT KEEPS LOVE FRESH AND CHANGING .
* BE YOURSELF ALL TIME TO BE PROTECTED FROM HEARTBREAKS & WATCH OTHER SIDE RESPONSE.
* WHAT DO GAIN BY WEARING A MASK PUTTING ON A SHOW & NEVER KNOWING WHERE YOU STAND?
* THE MORE YOU CAN OPEN YOUR HEART & MAIN TO LEARN ABOUT YOUR PARNTER ,HOW HE/SHE
EXPERIENCES THE WOURLD ,CONNECT .
* ASK QUESTIONS TO HELP YOU LEARN MORE & INCREASE YOUR INTEREST IN OTHER PEOPLE THE MORE
YOU FIND OUT ABOUT YOURSELF.
* IT CAN BE VERY ROMANTIC TO WRITE YOUR EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS & LOVE ON NOTES OR POEM
TO YOUR SPOUSE.
* BE CREATIVE AND FUN TO WRITE FUNNY ,SWEET OR TENDER NOTES SNEAK IT PURSE,BRIEFCASE ...
IT CAN DEVELOP YOUR SPECIAL CONNECTION.
* IT IMPORTANT TO HAVE AN IDEA OF WHAT YOU WANT FROM LIFE & YOUR MARRIAGE AND LOVE.
* RELIZE THAT YOU CAN'T CONTROL THE OUTCOME & WHAT SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN BUT YOU CAN KILL
THE PLEASUE OF LIFE WITH IMMATURE HOPE THAT CAN'T BE SATISFIED WITH ANYTHING ELSE BUT ONLY
HOPE WITH ALL YOUR HEART & SOUL FOR YOUR LOVE LIFE IT CAN BE THE BEST POSSIBLE CHANCE.
* WELCOME THE POSSIBILITY TO MEET THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS BUT IT BE OPEN TO THE FACT YOU
MIGHT NOT.
* MOST MARRIAGES END BECAUSE OF THE REFUSAL TO SHARE TWO REALITIES.
* YOU NEED TO LEARN TO SEE YOUR SPOUSE'S IDEAS,FEELINGS AND BEHAVIORS.
* WONDER HOW THEY SEE THE WOULD IT DIFFEENTLY FORM THE WAY YOU DO.
* BEWARE OF CLAIMING YOURS AS THE ONLY TRUTH.
* IF YOU NEVER GET ANGRY & FIGHT YOU AE EMONTIONALLY CHEATING ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
* NO MATTER HOW TERRIFIC BOTH OF YOU ARE WILL STILL GET ON EACH OTHER NERVES & TEAS BE
ANNOYING.
* WITHOUT ATTENTION & PLANNING AND EMOTIONAL AVAILABITLIY TO ROMANCE IT WILL DIE.
* NO MATTER HOW LONG YOU BEEN TOGHETHER IT NEVER LATE TO PUT ROMANCE IN TO YOUR LIFE.
* SURPRISE ONE ANOTHER WITH FLOWERS & JUST DON'T DROP THEM PRESENT AS LOVE GIFT.
* THE POINT OF SPECIAL DATES,CANDLES & FLOWERS ,WINE ,DANCE,FLIRT IS TO EXPERIENCE THE LOVE
KEEP ROMANCE ALIVE & REMIND YOURSELVES WHY IT YOU CHOICE TO MARRY EACH OTHER.
* MOST SUFFERING IS CAUSED BY REFUSAL TO LIVE IN REALITY THEN IT IS DIFFERENT FROM WHAT IT'S
SUPPOSED TO BE & WE BLAME ON YOU SPOUSE AND WE SUFFER.
* MOST PEPOLE MAKE HAPPINESS VERY DIFFICULT& IMPOSSIBLE.
* MOST PEPOLE WAIT FOR THE OTHER PESON TO MAKE ALL DECISIONS & END UP DISAPPOINTED.
* MORNINGS ARE PERPECT TIME TO START CELEBRATE & CONNECT WITH LOVE.(I LOVE YOU = GOOD
MORNING).
* COMMIT REAL FUN IN YOUR MARRIAGE MEAN FULFILLING YOUR PASSION TOGETHER & NOT AVOIDING
YOURSELF.
* FINDING FAULT -IT'S NOT YOUR JOB TO FIX OR MAKER OVER YOUR LOVER &COMFORTING OUR OWN
INSECURITY - THIS IS NOT REAL LOVE.
* FAULT IS FEAR THAT THINGS SHOULD BE & OUR WAYS ARE DIFFERENT FROMYOUR SPOUSE'S .
* LOVE IS NOT QUICK FIX FOR ANYTHING.
* PUT A LIMIT ON WHAT YOU SPEND ON EACH OTHER & FOCUS WHAT YOU WANT TO EXPRESS WITH THE
GIFT& ENJOY THE GIVING.
* PEOPLE ARE NOT TRUSTWORTHY THEMSELVES CANNOT TRUST HIM/HER,THEY FAILED TO CHECK
RELIABILITY AND HONESY BEFORE THEY WERE MARRIED.
* TOMARROW YOU IMAGINE IS COMING WIN NEVER COME,TOMARROW ILL SHOW UP ON ITS OWN TERMS.

Tuesday, December 28, 2004

On Meaning of Life . . .

LIFE is the task of Managing our Liabilities on the timeline of Probabilities!

"Amir Kamran Harouni"

Saturday, December 18, 2004